While the desire to kiss or embrace the deceased is understandable, experts recommend safer ways to say farewell:
- Hold their hand or gently touch their arm (avoiding the face and mouth).
- Place a flower or keepsake in the casket.
- Speak your final words privately to the loved one.
- Create a memory ritual, such as writing a goodbye letter or lighting a candle.
6. Cultural and Emotional Considerations
In many cultures, kissing the deceased is a tradition symbolizing respect and eternal love. It is important to balance these traditions with medical advice. Families can still honor their loved ones while prioritizing the health and safety of those who remain.
Conclusion
Kissing a deceased person might feel like a tender act of love and farewell, but it carries potential health risks that should not be ignored. From the danger of infectious diseases to exposure to toxic embalming chemicals, the consequences can be serious. Instead, families are encouraged to choose safer, symbolic ways of expressing their final goodbyes—ways that protect both their health and the memory of their loved ones.
